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为什么这么难说 “没有”? 出色地, 你当然要礼貌, 厚道, 和蔼可亲. 如果是你的老板向你要东西, 你可能害怕失去青睐或机会. 如果是客户或客户要求某事, 你可能不想破坏关系.
但我想告诉你的是，在很多情况下你应该说不. 你应该知道怎么说. 你需要清楚, 公司, 和诚实.
讨论题
1. 你是否通常觉得很难说 “没有” 当有人要求你做某事时?
2. 你说谁最难 “没有” 至?
3. 你为什么认为说 “没有” 有时可能很困难?
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1. Most of time, refusing someone’s requirements is a little hard for me, even though I’m reluctant. So this article is a good topic for me to learn some important points for refusing agreeablely.
2. 出色地, for my relatives or my superior leaders, I always fail to say “没有”.
3. Each of us want to be polite and agreeable, and do not want to shut the door in his/her face when they are asking you to help them out of a difficult situation. Also fearing that we would lose a good relationship.
1,有时, saying “no” to someone is very difficult for me. Especailly when my friends ask me to do something I don’t want to, it is really hard for me to say no. because I think refusing them will harm our relationship. 另一方面, I’ve no idea about how I can make it.
2,对我的朋友和老板说“不”对我来说是最困难的事情.
3,因为我们有太多的事情要关心. 我们并不清楚, 足够坚定和诚实. 这篇文章让我学到了很多. 下次当我想说不的时候, 我会坚定地说出来.
说“不”的技巧非常有用, 但拒绝总是一件冒险的事情, 因为这在很大程度上取决于你拒绝的人的性格.